Your Privacy Comes First
In Brief
Civilly is built for people going through divorce, so we understand privacy is essential—not optional. Your information is protected with bank-level security, and we will never share anything with your spouse or their legal team.
At Civilly, we understand you are trusting us with some of the most sensitive information in your life. Divorce involves finances, children, emotions, and private communications. We take that responsibility seriously.
This Privacy Policy explains what information we collect, how we use it, and how we protect it. We have written this in plain English because you deserve to understand exactly how your data is handled. This Policy is incorporated into our Terms of Service and governs your use of Civilly.
Who Controls Your Data
In Brief
Civilly Services is the data controller responsible for your personal information. This means we determine how and why your data is processed, and we are accountable for protecting it.
When this policy mentions "Civilly," "we," "us," or "our," it refers to Civilly Services, located in San Diego, California, United States. We are the data controller responsible for your personal information under this Privacy Policy.
As data controller, we determine the purposes and means of processing your personal data and are responsible for ensuring your information is handled in compliance with applicable privacy laws, including GDPR for European users and CCPA/CPRA for California residents.
Information We Collect
In Brief
We collect only what we need to help you stay organized during divorce: your account information, documents you upload, messages you log, financial data you choose to connect, and information about family members relevant to your case. We never access anything you do not explicitly share with us.
Civilly collects information in four ways: information you provide directly, information from services you connect, information from third-party authentication, and information collected automatically when you use our platform.
Information You Provide
- Account information: your name, email address, and password
- Profile information: demographic details like your state of residence, birth date, and relationship status
- Case details: information about your divorce, including dates, filing status, and parties involved
- Family information: first names of your spouse or ex-spouse, children, and other family members relevant to your case
- Documents: files you upload to your document vault, including PDFs, images, court filings, and other files
- Messages: communications logged in your communication log, whether typed manually or imported from email or text
- Journal entries: private notes and reflections you write in your solo journal
- Financial information: income, expenses, assets, debts, and calculator inputs you enter
- Task and calendar data: deadlines, appointments, custody exchanges, and to-do items you create
- Communications with us: messages, emails, or support requests you send to Civilly
Information from Connected Services
When you choose to connect financial accounts through Plaid, we receive account names, balances, and transaction history. This helps you track expenses and organize financial information for your case.
We never receive or store your bank login credentials. Plaid handles authentication directly with your financial institution using bank-level security protocols.
Information from Sign-In Services
When you choose to sign in using Google or Apple, we receive the profile information you authorize, typically your name and email address. We use this only to create and manage your Civilly account.
We do not access your contacts, calendar, files, or any other information from these services. You can revoke this connection at any time through your Google or Apple account settings.
Information Collected Automatically
- Device information: type of device, operating system, browser type, and screen resolution
- Usage data: features you use, pages you visit, actions you take, and time spent on the platform
- Log data: IP address, access times, referring URLs, and error logs for troubleshooting
- Location information: general location derived from your IP address (we do not collect precise GPS location)
How We Use Your Information
In Brief
We use your information to provide and improve Civilly, help you organize your divorce paperwork, power AI features that assist you, process payments, and communicate with you about your account. We never sell your data or use it for advertising.
We use the information we collect for the following purposes:
- Provide the Civilly service: store your documents, display your timeline, calculate support estimates, manage your calendar, and deliver all platform features
- Power AI features: our AI assistant uses your case information to provide personalized guidance, extract information from documents, and categorize your data
- Process transactions: handle payments, send receipts, and manage your subscription
- Communicate with you: send account notifications, respond to support requests, deliver security alerts, and share product updates you opt into
- Improve the platform: understand how people use Civilly so we can make it better, fix bugs, and develop new features
- Ensure security: detect and prevent fraud, abuse, unauthorized access, and security threats
- Comply with legal obligations: respond to valid legal requests and meet regulatory requirements
- Personalize your experience: tailor content and recommendations based on your case details and usage patterns
We never sell your personal information. We never use your data for third-party advertising. We never share your information with your spouse, their attorney, or anyone acting on their behalf.
Legal Basis for Processing
In Brief
For users in the European Union and United Kingdom, we process your data based on specific legal grounds: your consent, our contract with you, legal obligations, or our legitimate business interests that do not override your rights.
If you are located in the European Economic Area (EEA) or United Kingdom, we collect and process your personal information only where we have a legal basis to do so under applicable data protection law. The legal bases we rely on include:
- Consent: You have given clear consent for us to process your personal data for a specific purpose, such as receiving marketing communications
- Contractual necessity: Processing is necessary to perform our contract with you (providing the Civilly service) or to take steps at your request before entering a contract
- Legal obligation: Processing is necessary to comply with a legal obligation, such as tax reporting or responding to valid legal requests
- Legitimate interests: Processing is necessary for our legitimate interests (such as improving our services, preventing fraud, or ensuring security) where those interests do not override your fundamental rights and freedoms
You have the right to withdraw consent at any time where we rely on consent to process your personal information. This will not affect the lawfulness of processing conducted before your withdrawal.
Information Sharing and Disclosure
In Brief
We share information only when necessary: with service providers who help us operate (like cloud hosting and payment processing), when required by law, or when you explicitly ask us to. We never sell your data, and we never share it with your spouse.
We will NEVER share your information with your spouse, their attorney, or anyone acting on their behalf. Period. Not for any reason. Not under any circumstances.
We may share limited information with the following categories of recipients:
- Service providers: Companies that help us operate Civilly, including cloud hosting (Google Cloud), payment processing (Stripe), email delivery, and analytics. These providers are contractually required to protect your data and use it only for the services they provide to us.
- Professional advisors: Lawyers, accountants, and auditors who need access to fulfill their professional obligations to us
- Legal requirements: If we receive a valid legal order (like a subpoena or court order), we will notify you before disclosing information unless legally prohibited from doing so. We will challenge overly broad requests.
- Your explicit request: When you export data to share with your attorney or other party you designate
- Business transfers: If Civilly is acquired or merges with another company, your information would transfer to the new owner under the same privacy protections described in this policy
- Safety situations: If we believe disclosure is necessary to prevent imminent harm to you or others
We do not sell or rent your personal information to third parties for their marketing purposes. We do not share your information with business partners for their independent use.
Protection of Family Member Information
When you use Civilly, you may provide information about your spouse, ex-spouse, children, or other family members. This "Third-Party Personal Information" receives special protection:
- We use family member information only to provide divorce-related calculations, timeline organization, and case management features
- We never use information about your spouse or children for commercial purposes, marketing, or advertising
- We never contact your family members based on information you provide
- This information is subject to the same security protections as all other data in your account
Enhanced Privacy Features
In Brief
Civilly includes special privacy features designed for people in sensitive situations: Quick Exit to instantly leave the site, discreet billing that appears as "Civilly Services" on statements, and email controls so nothing reveals you are using a divorce platform.
We understand that many people going through divorce need extra privacy protections, especially those in difficult or dangerous domestic situations. Civilly includes several features designed to protect your confidentiality:
Quick Exit
Every page on Civilly includes a Quick Exit feature that instantly redirects your browser to a neutral website (like Google) if you need to leave quickly. You can activate Quick Exit by:
- Pressing the ESC key on your keyboard
- Clicking the Quick Exit button visible on every page
Quick Exit helps protect your privacy if someone unexpectedly approaches while you are using Civilly on a shared or visible device.
Discreet Billing
We understand that billing statements can reveal sensitive information to others who may have access to your accounts. All Civilly charges appear on your statements as "Civilly Services" only.
- No reference to divorce, legal services, or case management
- The same discreet descriptor appears on all receipts and invoices
- Email receipts use the same discreet naming
Email Privacy Controls
We give you complete control over email communications:
- Option to disable all non-essential email notifications
- Emails appear from a discreet sender name in your inbox
- Subject lines never contain sensitive or revealing content about divorce
- Option to receive notifications only within the Civilly app instead of email
Private Browsing Recommendations
If you are using a shared device or computer, we recommend these additional privacy measures:
- Use incognito or private browsing mode in your browser
- Clear your browser history after each session
- Use a password manager to store your Civilly login securely
- Disable browser notifications for Civilly if others use your device
- Sign out of Civilly when you finish each session
Data Security
In Brief
We protect your data with AES-256 encryption at rest and TLS 1.3 in transit—the same standards used by banks. Row-level security in our database ensures you can only access your own case data.
Security is foundational to everything we build. Here is how we protect your information:
- Encryption at rest: All data stored in our database and file storage is encrypted with AES-256 encryption
- Encryption in transit: All data sent between your device and our servers uses TLS 1.3 encryption
- Row-level security: Our database enforces access controls so users can only access their own case data
- Field-level encryption: Sensitive fields like financial account tokens receive additional encryption layers
- Access controls: Only authorized personnel can access systems, and all access is logged and audited
- Regular security assessments: We conduct regular security reviews and penetration testing
- Secure infrastructure: We host on Google Cloud Platform with SOC 2 Type II compliance
- Secure authentication: We support multi-factor authentication and secure OAuth sign-in
While we implement strong security measures, no method of electronic storage or transmission is 100% secure. We encourage you to use a strong, unique password and enable multi-factor authentication on your account.
Data Retention
In Brief
We keep your data as long as your account is active. If you close your account, we delete your data within 30 days, except where legally required to retain it. You can export all your data before closing your account.
- Active accounts: We retain your data as long as your account is active and you continue using Civilly
- Account closure: When you close your account, we delete your data within 30 days
- Backup retention: Encrypted backups are retained for 90 days after deletion for disaster recovery, then permanently deleted
- Legal requirements: Some records may be retained longer if required by law, such as financial transaction records for tax purposes
- Anonymized data: We may retain anonymized, aggregated data that cannot identify you for analytics and service improvement
When we delete your data, we use secure deletion methods. If immediate deletion is not possible (such as data in backup systems), we securely isolate your data from further processing until deletion is complete.
Your Rights and Choices
In Brief
You can access, export, correct, or delete your data at any time. You can disconnect financial accounts, opt out of marketing emails, and close your account whenever you want. We make exercising these rights easy.
You have control over your personal information. Depending on your location, you may have the following rights:
- Access: Request a copy of the personal information we have about you
- Export: Download a complete copy of your data in standard, portable formats
- Correction: Update or correct any inaccurate information in your profile or case
- Deletion: Request deletion of your account and all associated data
- Restriction: Ask us to limit how we process your data in certain circumstances
- Objection: Object to our processing of your data based on legitimate interests
- Data portability: Receive your data in a structured, commonly used format
- Withdraw consent: Withdraw consent for processing where consent is the legal basis
- Disconnect services: Remove connected services like Plaid at any time
- Marketing opt-out: Unsubscribe from marketing emails with one click
To exercise these rights, visit your Account Settings or contact us at privacy@civilly.io. We will respond within 30 days. We may need to verify your identity before processing certain requests.
California Privacy Rights
In Brief
California residents have additional rights under CCPA and CPRA: the right to know what data we collect, request deletion, opt out of data sharing, and not be discriminated against for exercising these rights.
If you are a California resident, the California Consumer Privacy Act (CCPA) and California Privacy Rights Act (CPRA) provide you with specific rights regarding your personal information:
- Right to know: You can request details about what personal information we collect, use, disclose, and sell
- Right to delete: You can request that we delete personal information we collected from you
- Right to correct: You can request that we correct inaccurate personal information
- Right to opt-out: You can opt out of the sale or sharing of your personal information (note: we do not sell your data)
- Right to limit use of sensitive information: You can limit how we use sensitive personal information
- Right to non-discrimination: We will not discriminate against you for exercising any of these rights
To exercise these rights, contact us at privacy@civilly.io or use the privacy controls in your Account Settings. You may designate an authorized agent to make a request on your behalf.
In the past 12 months, we have collected the categories of personal information described in the "Information We Collect" section. We do not sell personal information. We do not use or disclose sensitive personal information for purposes other than those permitted by CCPA/CPRA.
Children's Privacy
In Brief
Civilly is designed for adults going through divorce. We do not knowingly collect information from anyone under 18. If you believe a child has provided us with personal information, please contact us immediately.
Civilly is intended for adults 18 years of age and older who are managing divorce-related matters. We do not knowingly collect personal information from children under 18.
If you are a parent or guardian and believe your child has provided us with personal information, please contact us immediately at privacy@civilly.io. We will promptly delete any information we have collected from children.
International Data Transfers
In Brief
Civilly is based in the United States and your data is processed here. If you access Civilly from outside the US, your information will be transferred to the US with appropriate safeguards in place.
Civilly operates in the United States, and your personal information is stored and processed on servers located in the United States. If you are accessing Civilly from outside the United States, please be aware that your information will be transferred to, stored, and processed in the United States.
For users in the European Economic Area (EEA) or United Kingdom, we ensure appropriate safeguards are in place for international data transfers, including standard contractual clauses approved by the European Commission where applicable.
By using Civilly, you acknowledge that your information may be transferred to and processed in the United States in accordance with this Privacy Policy.
Changes to This Policy
In Brief
We will notify you of any material changes to this Privacy Policy via email and a notice on our website at least 30 days before they take effect. Your continued use of Civilly after changes means you accept the updated policy.
We may update this Privacy Policy from time to time in response to changing legal, technical, or business developments. When we make material changes, we will:
- Notify you by email at least 30 days before the changes take effect
- Post a prominent notice on our website
- Update the "Last Updated" date at the top of this policy
- Obtain your consent if required by applicable law
We encourage you to review this Privacy Policy periodically. Your continued use of Civilly after any changes indicates your acceptance of the updated policy. If you do not agree to the changes, you should stop using Civilly and close your account.
Contact Us
In Brief
If you have questions about this Privacy Policy or how we handle your data, please reach out. We are here to help and will respond within 48 hours.
If you have any questions, concerns, or requests regarding this Privacy Policy or our data practices, please contact us:
Civilly Services
San Diego, California, United States
We aim to respond to all privacy inquiries within 48 hours. For data subject access requests under GDPR or CCPA/CPRA, we will respond within 30 days as required by law.
Questions?
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